Phizzy-
Thanks for your comments.
Many who wish to free themselves of the JW religion still wish to exercise their legal right to associate with family and loved ones who are members.
Info Sekta made the case clear that to forbid the free association of and suppress the natural affections and protections of the nuclear family is a violation of basic Human Rights.
Justice and human rights are the issue - don't be sidetracked by cult-speak.
.Disassociation is an intentionally loaded term that should never be used in your freedom letter. Elders instantly conflate any use of the term with apostasy requiring nosy questions.
Apostasy is not a crime, but a basic human right, and never stray from the goal to maintain association with loved ones as a free person yourself.
The letter pre-empts the elders' ecclesiastic authority. They cannot convene a judicial committee because you are not a member. You have a document proving that defining point.
Your letter should also rescind any documents you may have signed allowing the collection and use of personal information (remember foolishly signing that?) and specifically mention that to have your name or religious status read or published by any congregation will be pursued legally a violation of your personal privacy.
As Phizzys friend the elder said "So there was nothing we could do."